I was set on powering my relays as described on this website: bridge-rectify the 6.3VAC line, massive cap then regulate down to 5VDC with an LM7805.
This works, but it has a drawback: the circuit cannot be connected to ground as that would short one side of the 6.3VAC secondaries on the PT. Not a huge deal, but a possible issue if the end user (I'm building this one for a close friend) ends up using a switching solution that shares ground.
Then while taking a peek at the Ceriatone layout for their AFD50 amp, I noticed an odd circuit for the relay supply: they send the 5VAC tap (for a rectifier tube which I won't be using) through two diodes and two caps and then regulate that down to 5VDC. If you were to bridge rectify 5VAC, you'd get at best 6VDC, not enough for regulation.
So I did a little googling and found out this is called a Delon voltage doubler. Accounting for diode voltage drop, this should still net me around 12VDC before regulation! And since I'm not using a tube rectifier, I can reference this to ground with no worries. The cost of the extra cap is partially offset by the need for only 2 diodes.
Any downsides? Current draw won't be much of an issue, my relays only pull 20mA a piece and I use two. Add a couple LEDs as channel indicators and we're still under 50mA total.
Only downside I can think of is that if I want to have DC filaments on my input tube, I still need that bridge rectifier and massive cap on the 6.3VAC line, unless it's "safe" to feed just the one tube from the Delon circuit (add an LM7086 and a cap and voilą), given that that will pull 300mA. The PT (Hammond 272DX) is good for 3A on the 5VAC line so no worries there.
What if I was to take this one step further and add a second 9VDC regulated line? I could easily add some SS components to my circuit if I wanted (was thinking of a built-in "mid-boost" ą la Tubescreamer before the first stage).