The grid circuit of an AC coupled cathodyne is very high impedance so you cannot accurately measure the grid voltage because your meter loads down that high impedance circuit. The 61v you measured is meaningless. To know what the actual grid voltage is connect your meter to the bottom of the grid leak resistor. Then you will see that the grid voltage is very close to the cathode voltage.
As I told you earlier, the actual voltage on the grid is not important. It's the voltage between the grid and cathode that is important. But you got to understand how to measure the grid voltage properly. Of course, you could always put one probe directly to the cathode and the other probe directly to the grid to get the real bias voltage.
There are three high impedance boot strap biased circuits that we commonly see in guitar amps. One is an AC coupled cathodyne. Another is an AC coupled cathode follower. And another is the LTP PI. You cannot accurately read the grid bias voltage of any of these three circuits simply by measuring the grid pin to chassis ground voltage. The reading will always be unbelievably low, just as you saw in your amp. If there was really a 20V difference between grid and cathode the tube would be hard cutoff and your amp would produce no sound.
Due to the inaccurate grid voltage readings of the above three boot strap biased circuits, I no longer list the grid voltage on my schematics. Instead, L list the voltage at the bottom side of the grid leak resistor. For example, look at these schematics...
https://sluckeyamps.com/dual_lite/dual_lite.pdf https://sluckeyamps.com/phoenix/phoenix.pdf