The amp should only lose volume when the trem oscillation cycle decreases the resistance to ground. When the oscillator is at the high part of the cycle, the amp volume should be unchanged.
Is the Vactrol damaged or not wired properly? I recall the resistor in the Vactrol has a value over 10meg ohms when the oscillator is off. Verify that yours is correct. Verify that it is wired correctly in the circuit. If the LED leads of the Vactrol were reversed, it may be damaged???
There is an internet thread about a Vactrol from Amazon not working properly. The one used by Steve Luckey is no longer available. Some have reported that Amplified Parts Xvive VTL5C1 is an effective substitute.
You have tried all the possible variations of insertion points and pot values. Great trouble shooting!
The only other explanation I can think of is that the untested Supro oscillator does not work with with this trem design. This is a long shot because if Sluckey thinks it would work, it should work
You may need to use the tried-and-true Trem-o-Nator oscillator. It sounds great and has several advantages over other trem circuits.
I enjoy watching you and others trying new ideas because I can steal them without doing all the trial-and error work

Good luck.