> 50-500 uF, does that mean just choose a value that "sounds" good or am I looking for a variable cap?
If you *never* over-drive the final stage, you do not need the cap. The push-pull equal-but-opposite action means the cathode voltage never tries to change, as long as you never over-drive the amp.
What am I saying? Where am I? Yes, a guitarist WILL over-drive the amp, perhaps rarely, perhaps all night long.
There is no "perfect value" here. Values of 500uFd and more *might* "improve sound" in Hi-Fi applications. While once costly, today a 1,000uFd 25V is very cheap.
But guitar tonal accent is NOT "Hi-Fi". We want distortion, changing dynamically.
The interaction between the playing style, dynamics, over-load, cathode-cap action, the grid-cap time constant, and the *music* is too complex to figure out ivory-tower style.
Many thousands of fine amps just threw about 50uFd in there. I suggest you do likewise. No-cap is also a good plan.
If, after serious beating (remember this cap has no effect below over-load), you are bored and restless and just gotta solder something, try other caps. I don't expect major differences. Nothing that would be worth drilling for a switch.
BTW, there are/were "variable capacitors" but the biggest were a million times less uFd than you need here.