I would also consider just an ABY switch for simplicity, keeping designs as simple as possible keeps the gremlins off guard 
An external AB/Y switch will not work with this amp. If you look closely at the schematic you will see that if you plug into the high gain input then you cannot plug anything into the low gain input. The high gain signal travels through the normally closed switch on the low gain input jack.
Exactly. It works fine, but i have Hum only when the relay are on!
In my opinion, the transformer can not withstand 120mA (40mA for 3 relays)
I would be very surprised if the transformer cannot handle an extra 120mA of filament current. The "grnd" terminal on the power supply board
must not connect to the amp chassis, either directly, or through a switch, or through a footswitch jack. It must remain completely isolated from chassis. IOW, the 5V supply must float. If you connect that "grnd" terminal to chassis you will destroy the bridge rectifier. It only takes about 17mS to destroy the bridge. So, if this is your case, you already need a new bridge rectifier.
If the "grnd" terminal has not been connected to the amp chassis, try this... Disconnect the green and blue wires from the tube socket. Leave them connected to the power supply board. Now connect a 9V battery to the dangling blue and green wires. Polarity does not matter. Does the hum go away when the relays are energized? If so, you will need to use a separate small filament transformer to power the relay circuit.