So, following PRR's advice, I replaced the 6V6 470 ohm cathode resistor with a 776 ohm (actual reading). This tamed the plate dissipation somewhat. I'm now down to 13.81 watts, which is about 115% I think. But my B+ also shifted. Node A went way up to 430v. I replaced the 5Y3GT (TAD brand) with a JJ 5Y3S, and Node A came down to 407 - I was surprised, but I guess the GT in this case means extra get-up-and-go.
It's kind of cool to see how the balance of power shifts around inside the circuit as various items are changed out. It helps me understand that a well designed schematic allows the energy in the system to sort of sit comfortably within it a stable fashion.
Anyway, here's where I'm at with what should be a super simple build:
Rec plates: 345vac
Node A: 407
6V6 plate: 397
Cath Res: 776 ohm
V-drop: -27
I have worked very closely with the 5F1 Fender schematic - not using my usual hodge-podge of old stuff. I bought new PT and OT. New tubes, too.
This all suggests to me, in my newbyness, that the PT is putting out too much voltage - 20v per side. And because it hums a little more than usual, I wonder about it. I have a new one coming in the mail, so I'll find out in a week, but as PTs don't usually cause such problems, well....I should have used the variac to check it thoroughly before installing. But I trusted its newness.
