12AU7 is safe with glass slightly hotter than the boiling point of water.
You would NOT hold on to it at this heat!
Mostly we use these little tubes at small power. I have seen them run so not-hot that _I_ could touch them a few seconds, even pull them out of the socket live. (I have tough skin.) But the last tube in the Firefly works hotter than that. I would not put a finger on it. That's probably OK.
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Plate voltage 232v
> Cathode voltage drop 8.1v
> Cathode Resistor 500RAh, numbers!! 16.2mA, 224V(p-k), is 3.63 Watts in two plates. Each plate is rated 2.75 Watts, or 5.5W for both together. You are working at 2/3rd of maximum. Hot, not too-hot. Will live a long time. (I had a similar amp with a lesser tube working slightly past rating, HOT. I had to replace the tube every year. But in those days this ex-TV tube was going out of style and could be got for a buck.)
I just tripped-over a Brimar report which includes push-pull power amp data for 12AU7. Yes, 0.7-1.1 Watts with <3% THD. IIRC the FireFly is not push-pull drive so will not be this "good"; but "baaad" can be good in a guitar amp. (3%THD not rising is really too clean for guitar expression.)
https://frank.pocnet.net/sheets/184/1/12AU7.pdf