Also I don't want to have to dime the amp to get good volume levels or tone out of it.
And then there's
this statement that you posted (above). Several comments for you to ponder. Years ago, I built a 23 watt 6L6 amp and had a friend play it comparing it to his JCM900 50 watt amp. Very little difference in volume between those two amps & the 23 watt had better breakup at the volume he played with his band.
There are likely others ............ but the only amp I can think of where the breakup/overdrive is not connected to the power amp is the Dumble amps which have a stiff power supply and have the overdrive in the preamp section. I've not played a Dumble but I've noted that the D-cloners claim being able to get great overdrive at pretty low volume levels.
I've had two amps that were 33 watts (Carvin vintage 33) and 50 watts (MusicMan RD50). I am confident that both of those amps significantly contributed to my current hearing loss. I struggled to get a tone I liked without it being super loud with each of those. I truly regret playing so loud and now having a hearing loss.
I think playing with most bands or when gigging in a small club, that an amp with 14-22 watts mic'd into the PA is usually sufficient. I personally have no desire to ever have an amp that is over 23 watts again. I have 3 amps that are 7watts, 14 watts and 23 watts. The 7 watt amp (6BM8) is the one I end up playing the most.
A Deluxe Reverb at 22 watts for example is noted as a great "club" amp.
IF you have a PT that is 300-0-300 and 150ma & use a tube rectifier and have your amp cathode biased then you can:
Use a 5Y3GT for 6K6's and 6V6's with about 330v on plates
Use a 5V4 for 6V6's or 5881's or 6L6's with about 360v on plates
Use a GZ34 for 5881's or 6L6's with about 390v on the plates
6K6 is about 8 watts, 6V6 is about 12-14 watts, 5881/6L6 is about 23 watts in my two amps that use this approach.
(Note that 330v on 6K6's is pushing it though. So far, it's not been problematic for me.)
Food for thought. I'm not pushing an approach, just trying to give some info to consider.
With respect, Tubenit