... part of my confusion, is the output impedance of the V1A; Ra in || with Rtot from the TS?
How exact do you need to be? Gnat's-ass perfection? (that question is not intended to be snarky)
1st Approximation:
If you want to do no work, you could take "Zsource" (output Z) to be equal to the plate load resistor/2. A well-designed triode voltage amplifier stage will have a plate load 2x as big as its internal plate resistance.
2nd Approximation:
If you have access to plate curves for the tube, draw a loadline for the known supply voltage & plate load resistance. Draw a second line for the cathode resistance, found by taking an arbitrary grid (bias) voltage and dividing by the cathode resistor value, and plotting a point at that current and that grid voltage. Continue to get at least a point on either side of the plate loadline. The intersection is the operating point, plate voltage & plate current. A tangent to the grid voltage curve at the operating point will be the plate resistance at the operating point.
This will probably be similar or lower than the number you got in the 1st Approximation.
A lot of people just take an assumed fixed value of internal plate resistance off the data sheet, as long as the condition shown doesn't have very much higher/lower plate current than the proposed operating point. You can always refine you estimate later if the design looks promising on the first pass.
3rd Approximation:
From the plate pin, there are 2 paths to ground: Down through the tube's plate resistance and up through the plate load resistor to the filter cap (a.c. ground). So you calculate R
a (plate load resistor) || r
a (internal plate resistance). This number should be lower than the 2nd Approximation but typically not as low as 1/2 the plate load resistor value (when evaluating a triode stage).
4th Approximation:
The coupling cap connects the plate to the following stage's circuit, which usually has a resistor/resistance to ground. This is in parallel with the value found in the 3rd Approximation. However, the plate load resistor is typically around 2x (or more) bigger than the triode's internal plate resistance for good voltage gain, and the following stage's resistance to ground is typically 2x (or more) bigger than the plate load resistor so that it doesn't load the preceding stage significantly. The value you get here should be a little lower than in the 3rd Approximation, but not hugely-lower (or else the stage is designed poorly/voltage gain is severely impacted).
The 4th Approximation is not too difficult if you have a fixed resistor. You're looking at a tone circuit; it is a different impedance to ground depending on the frequency applied and the setting of the controls. Which is why PRR said:
TSC figures out the interaction between Zsource and the tonestack, not your job.
It's a tough mathematical problem, which is why the ToneStack Calculator does the work. So utmost precision only require the 3rd Approximation value (unless you have an unbypassed cathode resistor, in which case there's an added step).