I'd use the 8 ohm tap. You don't get a better sound using the 8 ohm tap VS the 4 ohm tap. By using the right value resistor you can get the same voltage from either tap.
Yes. Note again that the critical factor is the value of the final NFB voltage injected into the cathode of the receiving tube. Ea OT secondary tap puts out a different voltage. The higher the Ohm rating of the tap, the higher the voltage. If you double the rating of the tap, e.g. 4Ω > 8Ω, the voltage increases I think by 1.4. Amp manufacturers tend to tap NFB off the highest Ohm tap, then divide NFB voltage down from there. But you can source your NFB from any tap you want. Then design the NFB circuit with the correct voltage division to get any particular,
final, NFB voltage.
So, if you have a multi-tap OT secondary, you can make NFB switchable by using the SW to select the different OT taps. Then a pot, or alternate resistors, are not needed within the NFB circuit itself. Some guys make the NFB source switchable
with a Speaker Ohm selector SW. That way the NFB voltage automatically stays in sync with speaker voltage.
For
objective purposes, NFB can cure the
operational issues of oscillation, or of fizzy speakers. Otherwise, the amount of NFB voltage to use, if any, is a tonal issue. As such it is purely
subjective. There is no magic voltage or OT tap to use; except that one or more particular settings may sound magical to you.