I've read that when two coils are in parallel that each coil loads down the other. That's why pos. 2 and 4 on a strat sound darker than 1,3 & 5. I like the single coil tap sound on my humbucker guitar but don't like the single coil hum.
Don't use mixing resistors. Use the proper parallel wiring for your humbucker's coils. I don't have much proof of my opinion here beyond a little experience with series/parallel wiring of humbuckers.
However, I believe that the "odd sound" of the in-between positions on a Strat is due to the distance between the coils being used. Because the pickups are sensing different portions of the string then mixing the resulting signals, we might guess the two signals have slightly different phase and harmonic content. Once mixed by being placed in parallel, the phase difference results in some elements of the sound being reinforced while others are minimized, and a new sound that is not simply adding both.
For what it's worth, when you select both humbuckers on a two-humbucker guitar, they are in parallel, and we don't worry about loading or a darker sound. I'd also contend that the neck/middle position on a Strat is brighter (but different) than the neck position, and the middle/bridge position is brighter than the middle-only position. I've added a bridge-pickup-on switch to a Strat before, and played neck/bridge. It was a lot more like having the neck/bridge setting on a Tele; brighter but not the clucky in-between Strat sound.
A long while back, I had a Les Paul with push-pull volume controls to select series/parallel wiring of the pickups. Parallel wiring gives the expected brighter and lower output sound while killing buzz. So no mixing resistors needed.