> blending/combining the L & R signals into mono? ... ... ... mixing before or after a gain stage?
What IS your stereo source? If it is weak, boost first. If it is CD or iPod or any other device with a strong output, just tie two resistors together.
> After the mix, I want a band pass filter?
Why? By the time you get it to play it, most non-audio frequencies are long gone. Everything over 20KHz is chopped-off by digital reconstruction (or phono-needle cutoff). Bass below 50hz is often cut in the mastering.
> I think of NFB as a gain limiter, so I don't know how it effects frequency.
It gives the "same" gain at all frequencies. So you turn that Treb knob up, the NFB counteracts the change, treble hardly changes.
And for "hi-fi" the NFB you really want is from the loudspeaker back to an appropriate point before the final stage. This isn't guitar where we want lively self-resonance in the speaker. You want a very low output impedance. Like 1/10th of speaker impedance. The naked-pentode plan you show, the output impedance will be about 10 times the speaker impedance.
I do not see any reason to have a White Cathode Follower between a gain-stage with 150K plate load and the grids of EL84 with 235K grid resitance (and why two resistors?).
Ah- the WCF is "needed" to drive the NFB loop which foils your tone controls.
Steal the Fender Champ AA schematic. Move the volume control forward to the first grid. Change the tone-stack to a James network stolen from any old mono hi-fi. On test, reduce the NFB resistor from speaker to driver cathode to get appropriate overall gain and smooth polite tone. Sure you can use your two-EL84 in place of a 6V6.
125GSE is a *monster* lump of iron, costly to buy, costly to ship. IMHO the lesser 125ESE is not strained working at higher powers than two EL84 can muster.
OTOH one 12W output tube with a "Fender Champ replacement" OT, in the Champ AA circuit, will not be a less "fi" sound unless you really need that last 5 Watts output.