This is the kind of problem you usually just have to bend your brain over. I tend to doubt it's the socket. The metal cylinder in the center of a 9 pin socket is only tied to ground if the user makes that connection; at least as far as I've ever seen. Most modern circuits (if you can even say that wrt a tube circuit) ignore that pin.
Do you have a real or synthetic center tap on your heaters?
You say the buzz comes from the reverb circuit, which of course could be the driver or recovery tube. For the driver, are you pretty sure you have cleanish DC power there? Remember the rev driver takes the second highest B+ in the amp, if your B+ isn't fairly clean by then (perhaps a bad filter cap in that #2 position) then big ripple would flow through the little reverb tranny and transmit through to the recovery tube. The rest of the amp, the preamp, would have its/their own filter caps and maybe they would work OK without the filtering provided by the reverb B+ takeoff. Maybe measure for AC (yes, AC) on the rev driver cathode; actually all its pins. Look for AC on the rev recovery tube and check things out by pulling it out. A scope would be super helpful here. Watch yourself on the rev driver plate, big volts there. Can you kill the buzz by pulling out the rev driver tube?
Those are my first thoughts.