brewdude / 92Volts - The series/parallel switching makes a lot of sense. I implemented it on the plate resistor in the first post, but the description of the cathode components make a lot of sense. I've attached a schematic that I think reflects the description?
Yes, that looks like what I was suggesting
As far as the large resistor to keep the cap charged - I don't quite understand. If I put a (1M?) resistor from the cathode to ground, it doesn't accomplish anything that the 2k7 does? If I put the 1M across the switch, I'd have 1M+ resistance in parallel with the 2k7, getting a total resistance of 2k6 or so. 
Rather than a 1M from 22u cap positive to ground, I was suggesting a 1M from cathode to 22u cap positive. In other words you bypass the switch, not the cap.
You don't want the cap to be equal to ground voltage, or "floating" (no ground connection) with 0v across it. In those cases, it will pull the cathode to 0v when connected (until it recharges), causing a pop.
The problem is, the 3k3 resistor connected to that cap is will discharge it. Any resistor small enough to stop that from happening would basically mean the resistor & cap are still in the circuit.
I think a double-pole switch which separately disconnects the cap/resistor from the cathode and from each other would let this work.