...both 6v6 's were redplating , obviously causing such a beautiful tone. I changed the circuit
to keep the 6v6 colder but lost the magic...
...a tube has got to work hard and give us all the guts he s got. Biasing a tube cold enough to last a life time is possible. Fine if you prefer a sterile tone...
The above cause and effect analysis is incorrect, and has led you to fall under a misapprehension.
Tube dissipation is not a characteristic or an operational condition.
It is just a limiting value.
Tube characteristics do not change according to plate dissipation.
Rather, as bias voltage is decreased, plate current increases and this causes stage gain and (for an AB amp) conduction angle to increase; it's plate current that matters here, please see any tube info, where it is an operating criteria that is well documented. Also, for cathode self bias, the dynamic change of bias with signal level (described as 'squish' by Aiken*) decreases as the cathode resistor value (and, coincidentally, conduction angle) decreases.
To achieve the preferred plate current operating point but without overdissipating the plates, I suggest to reduce amp's HT voltage. That would be done most simply by replacing the PT to one that had a lower voltage HT winding. Then actually design the amp (rather than just assembling parts and experimenting) using the tube load lines, as per the previously linked Merlin page.
If it is necessary to maintain the power output provided by the previous, higher HT voltage, then it may be necessary to add another pair of 6V6 or move to a beefier power tube.
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http://www.aikenamps.com/index.php/what-is-sagAlternatively, if you're getting the sound you want and a years hard usage out of redplating 6V6, then as long as your supply of tough 6V6 continues to hold up, then it seems reasonable to leave things as they are.