I think the only thing you need to realize is that circuit symbols are "usually" put on a schematic following a logical convention. In the case of a MOSFET, the drain is shown on top, gate in the middle, and source on the bottom. This follows the same "usual" convention for a bipolar transistor where collector is top, base is middle, and emitter is bottom. I say "usual" because there will always be exceptions. This makes it easier to understand the workings of a circuit.
But solid state devices come in many different shapes and pin configurations (case styles) and these rarely follow the same logic as used when drawing a schematic. Case in point is the IFR820. You will usually see the schematic symbol with the drain shown on top, but the actual device has the drain as the middle leg. Just the way it is. So, in order to understand how the device operates you need to refer to the schematic and hope the draftsman followed a logical convention. But when you need to actually wire up the circuit, you must follow the layout diagram which will show the physical connections for a device.
So, bottom line... schematic is for understanding, layout is for building. Learn to relate what you see on one drawing with what you see on the other. I've attached a screen capture from a datasheet for the IFR820 which shows schematic symbol and actual device layout. Memorize it!
