...I came across these L-pad numbers for a voltage divider where R1=4.7ohms and R2=1ohm...
Hmmm. I assumed it would also be driving the grid leak and tube R in parallel, the sum of which would be determined by the value of the grid leak R...
So you were looking at a speaker level L pad, and that's how you got such low resistances?
The grid leak limit for 12AX7 is typically around 2M.
What did you mean by 'tube R'?
Note that unless it's being overdriven (or operated in 'grid current' mode), a tube control grid's input resistance may be regarded as being effectively infinite, its equivalent circuit is just its Miller capacitance.
Line level input impedance is typically in the range 10k - 100k. There's no downside per se in going higher but for good audio fidelity, potential divider resistances are typically kept below 100k. As the values used increase beyond that, parasitic / stray capacitances will tend to interact with the resistances to create unintended high and low pass filters, thereby messing up the flat 20-20kHz frequency response that so much effort goes into achieving.
This looks to be a good article about the interconnect arrangements used in audio systems
https://www.soundonsound.com/techniques/understanding-impedance