I would rather have the heaters elevated all the time.
Leave the elevation on all the time.
This makes sense to me, and was my main concern with having the voltage divider running off the bleeder resistor network AFTER the standby. If I did it that way, I would be running the heaters referenced to 0V in standby, and at ~50V during operation. Didn't seem right.
Standby is a nonsense, the endless faffing around in order to accommodate the constraints and complications it introduces seems topsy turvey to me 
Just get rid of it.
If there’s a panel hole for the switch, use it for something else.
We’re (hopefully) happy to do that for the anachronism that is the ground switch, so I’m at a loss to understand the reluctance to do the same for standby 
With respect to the standby/no standby switch...I've done a lot of reading on it and it still seems to me there are 2 "camps" on the issue. The technical aspects exceed my understanding of the subject however. Many of Doug's layouts incorporate a standby switch, for example, the Plexi 50 layout that I am generally following. I will be using the progressive switch Doug sells for power/standby, so there is only one hole. And while this is a minor point, I've already had my front panels made and "standby" is already on there.

With my OCD, it would drive me crazy having "standby" on the front panel when in fact there is no standby option.

Logical?..no. But that's the reality.
Also, you want the voltage for the elevation to be as clean as possible. The first filter stage can have something like a 5V ripple.
I use the voltage from the second or third filter node.
This sort of brings me back around to the standby switch issue. It seems this wouldn't be feasible if I am incorporating a standby switch into the design of the amp. Otherwise, I'm back at 0V reference at standby, 50V reference when on.
With 2deaf's schematic, tapping the HV secondary prior to the rectifier diodes and before the standby switch, and using a 1N4007 diode to do the rectification solely for the elevated heater reference, this may be the best option. But getting to d95's comment about 5V ripple...will this not also occur with 2deaf's design?
Finally, are there any fuse protection considerations with this? My HT fuse will be after diode rectification, and thus the "tap" off of the secondary for the elevated heater reference will not be "protected", except for the mains fuse.
I appreciate everyone's help and responses...I'm still very much a struggling student in all of this, but wanting to learn as much as I can.