so when a moving object hits a stationary object, it's not simply Newtons force? or pounds force? I need the delta dt in the answer?
Oh, this question takes me back 50 years to when I was teaching Newtonian physics. I was not an effective teacher, bear in mind.

The direct answer to your question is that units of force are Newtons, dynes, pound-force, and others.
Force is defined as what happens to an object that has "force" applied to it. So, when a solid object is knocked by something, the force of the knock is defined by the mass of our object times the acceleration that results from the knock. So, yup the force would be mass (kg) times the acceleration that occurs (m/s/s).
Real world events, such as "what is the force of a 20mm bullet hitting an armored target" get very complicated very fast, though. Objects deform, motion is converted to heat via friction, etc etc.
When you use pounds in these calculations, you have to be mindful of the context. Is the pound a mass, or is it a force (mass x gravitational acceleration). Check out
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pound_(force)#:~:text=In%20other%20contexts%2C%20the%20unit,unit%20of%20mass%20is%20lb.&text=In%20the%20%22engineering%22%20systems%20(,unit%20(pound%2Dforce). for definitions (it is not a pretty picture). For example, when we talk about torque we commonly use pound-feet -- in that context the pound is a force, not a mass.