Thanks for all the comments. Here are my responses.
When I shunt the Mic input jack tip to ground, with nothing plugged in, the noise remains. It sounds the same even when and instrument is plugged into the jack. It only disappears when either the .006 cap or the 1M resistor are jumped across themselves. The only time there isn't 21khz noise is when the Vol pot is set at 2 or below, and Tone is about the same level. As Tone increases with Vol, it becomes more noticeable, and when Vol is 7-9 then it's distorted and very noticeable. With Vol past 9, it immediately clears up. But that's with the amp at full Vol.
I'm going to install a new Socket and see if that helps, and address the filament wire dress at that time. The old socket has some wobbly lugs.
Separating the cathodes and adding the caps and resistors substantially reduced the hum. However the 21khz distortion is still there.
It had this problem even with the original non-switching jacks. Changing them to switching made no difference. No cellphone or router nearby. Does this in different houses. All of the components except the 5M resistor (whose value is about 6M and in a different part of the circuit) are new and test within specs, including the subject cap. Yes I agree, those 4 parts are all there is, or so it seems, and their values are fine.
AINewman, what values for those caps and resistors should I try?
Shooter, I'm leaving the cathodes separated. I think I'll leave in the bypass cap since the change improved the hum even if it didn't affect the 21khz distortion. I'll try jumping at the same time both the .006 cap and the related 1M resistor. The result would then be a direct connection from the grid, through the new 50K grid stopper to ground.
Could there be anything going on internally with the PT that is creating this 21khz oscillation?
Why does the 21khz oscillation stop when I jump the Tip of the Input Jack to the lead going into the 1 Meg resistor?