Two triodes are never perfectly matched, and they are also not perfectly linear, i.e the peaks and valleys are not amplified equally, so they cannot cancel perfectly. It sounds like you're getting a differential gain of roughly unity, whereas the common-mode gain is probably about 50 (for a 12AX7), so you are getting maybe 34dB of cancellation for out-of-phase input signals. Perfect cancellation is asking too much.
So, the mixing resistors after the harmonic trem triodes in the 6g13a are used to do the actual mixing and cancel out the modulation signal?
Based on demos I've heard, the 6g13a doesn't have a noticable ticking sound. If I wanted to get close to perfect cancelation, I would have to manually trim the modulation signals until they are being amplified equally. Maybe use the variable cathode bypass circuit from your guitar preamp book..?
Are the separate plate load resistors increasing the balance of the circuit to help alleviate some ticking? It seems like unless fender was using very closely matched tubes, they would run into similar cancelation issues. I'm using a 6AC10 that appears to be closely matched based on my mutual conductance tester.
Any one with a 6g13a that can comment on real world performance of ticking?