> try to match it's load impedance.
Tubes don't have "a load impedance".
You pick it by selecting the voltage and current.
There are limits.
The maximum useful load impedance is limited by plate voltage or transformer winding troubles. We "could" run 6V6 at 1000V 10mA 100K load.... but a 100K winding won't have good bandwidth, will cost a lot, and 1,000V is so far beyond what 6V6 was made for that we would have trouble right away.
The minimum useful load is set by the plate resistance _below_ the knee. You want to stay well above this impedance to get power out of the tube. When plate and screen voltages are similar, a good trick is to learn the tube's "Triode plate resistance" and double it. This suggests >4K for 6V6 and >2K for 6L6.
Most of the higher-voltage (exclude 110V kitchen radio tubes) Audio Power tubes were designed to handle 2K-5K loads for the big bottles, 4K-7K for the small bottles. Voltages over 300V-400V tend to cost more, windings of 10K and up cost more. The tube makers were no fools.
Getting to specifics: you have 6550 which can make 20 Watts output, 6L6 generally taken as 10W out with best conditions, and 6V6 at 5 Watts. If your goal is "MAXIMUM POWER!!", then you don't fool with tube swaps. You design for the 6550's 20W condition and only use 6550/KT88.
But even 5 Watts is pretty loud. And this is not intended to be a Big Stadium amp. This is a tube-roller. You design for the LEAST tube in your lot. Probably 6V6. 6L6 6L6GC 5881 EL34 6550 KT88 KT66 will all work in a "6V6" hole with little or no change. And with essentially 6V6 power output. Oh, the 6550 might get 10% more Watts, or the difference in EL34 curvature could give a different Watts number at the "same THD %", but such differences are small.
So aim near 250V 45mA 5K load or 280V 40mA 7K load. This will be 5 or 6 Watts output. The standard Champ Replacement OT is a safe bet.
As for heaters.... The Deluxe replacement is specced (IIRC) for 1.5A heater. One 12AX7 and one 6550 will exceed this by 27%. With some reasonable assumptions, your "6.3V" will be 0.1V low and the PT will be 0.3 Watts hotter than the designer intended. That's not Good Practice; however it isn't much of an overload and as an experimental platform it will work for years.
> for the larger tubes ... they'll adjust down...
I need to bring power to my garage. I do the math, it says I need 2,345circmil copper to carry the current. #10 wire is 2,800circmil and will work. However I find some #4 wire with 34,567circmil of copper already hiding in the ground to the garage. There is no electronic problem using a bigger wire (or tube) for a smaller load! There may be an economic problem: #4 wire is 7 times the price of #10! And in an ideal world, 6L6 would be almost twice the price of 6V6 (the historic 6L6/6V6 ratio is about 1.5). So if you have to BUY the wire or tube, you aim small. But if you already have it in the ground (or when tubes are as cheap as they are today, relative to cost of beer or gas), then just use it.