I had a feeling it wasn't real critical because Fender used 27K and Weber uses 56K on the same 2 ohm tap.
If you have a feedback loop, and double the series resistor as you've noted, you get less feedback.
I don't have much experience though and I think I remember reading an article on a hifi amp that they thought something was improved by moving the NFB loop from the 8 to the 16 ohm tap, so I didn't know if there was some inherant advantave to having it on the higher impedance winding.
Be careful noting things from hi-fi and applying to guitar amps!

If they made no other changes, they boosted the amount of feedback, which might be desirable for clean reproduction in a hi-fi amp.
The output transformer takes a voltage applied to the primary and induces a similar voltage in the secondary, in a ratio determined by the amount of turns of the primary to the secondary. Different secondary impedances are accomplished by having more turns for the higher impedance tap.
For the same primary voltage, if you move to a higher impednace secondary tap, you get a higher voltage output. The total power output is the same, as impedance went up, current went down, and voltage went up. If you doble the impedance (move from 8 ohm to 16 ohm tap), you will get SqRt 2 more voltage, or V * 1.414. If you quadruple the impedance (4 ohm tap to 16 ohm tap), you get 2x the voltage output.
Which output tap to use really depends on where the feedback will be injected back into the circuit, and how much voltage you need to develop, as well as what tap(s) might be available. Much of the initial voltage available at the secondary is thrown away in the voltage divider forming the feedback loop (because a smaller amount of voltage is needed).
Use whichever tap you like. Here's a chart I had for a very similar NFB loop. I had an equation to calculate but don't recall what it was. Anyhow, it's not that critical. You can probably tune it by ear. There's no wrong or right here.
2Ω tap = 22K
4Ω tap = 29K
8Ω tap = 39K
16Ω tap = 56K
See, Sluckey basically told you this with his chart. It doesn't matter which tap is used, but higher impedance taps have higher voltage outputs, so a bigger series resistor is used to maintain the stock level of feedback.