I'm reading this thread with much enjoyment and amusement. BTW, welcome welcome silvergun. It is refreshing to see your enthusium and personality coming through loud and clear, lol. As it's been alluded to already, you're in good hands with everyone here.
It is interesting that in certain parts of this thread it seems that you're looking for power tube overdriven tones and then in other responses you're liking/looking for preamp distortion/overdrive tones, and then maybe you're also liking sag and speaker break-up along with these. Maybe a mix of everything?
I can't say enough that there's soooo many combinations of so many things like this that all adds up to maybe what you're looking for? Olny you'll know when you feel, hear, and find it. Add in the affects of and difference btwn a triode vs pentode, the signal to noise ratio of a paralleled 12ax7, a 12ax7 vs 12ay7, the way the tube's are biased from one section to the next, fully bypassed or not, what kind of pi is used, coupling caps, smoothing tweaks, self or fixed biased, tone stack with inherent mid scoop or tweeds' full signal heavy mid flavour, etc... and there's literally a "pot pourri" of things to consider which all yields tradeoffs. Gain, freq response, touch sensitivy, sustain, blooming, bass response, clarity, harmonic content, etc. - and this is ultimately only the final product of the total package for just the amp and it's response. The rectifier, transformers, voltages everything's ran at, and the like are all also important.
I would only suggest to you, after throwing some things our there, that you can't get everything in one single amp, as already said there's trade-offs. You are smart in wanting to build three amps, so target what you want to play with the tone, sound, and characteristics you are after so that you can maximize the final product and desired outcome for each. I think this will give you the rewards and happiness you seek in the end?
Hope this helps, Keo