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Gary's first question about ohm's law and tube voltages deals with d.c. tube conditions. However, Gary's new question really asks about the tube's
a.c. conditions and should not be confused with idle conditions.
Gary:
For a moment, forget everything you know about a triode. Imagine that you replace a preamp triode with a perfect voltage generator. The output of the generator will be equal to the applied grid voltage (vg1) times the triode's amplification factor, mu. Refer to the figure below.
now imagine that the output of this perfect generator is applied to a voltage divider, akin to a volume control. The upper leg of the volume control is the internal plate resistance of the tube, rp1. The lower leg of the voltage divider is the actual plate load resistor, RL1.
If the plate load resistor is made bigger, or the internal plate resistance of the tube is somehow made smaller (or both), this is akin to "turning up the volume" on our voltage divider.
The external plate load resistor works against the internal plate resistance of the tube to define the resulting voltage gain of the tube, which is generally less than the published amplification factor of the tube. That's because to have measured voltage gain equal to mu, the plate load resistor would have to be infinitely large, but that also require infinitely-large supply voltage.
In practice, we shoot for a plate load resistor 2-5 times bigger than the internal plate resistance of the tube at the chosen operating point. More than this results in diminishing returns unless you resort to trickery like using a solid-state device as an active plate load.
Carrying this further, pretend the coupling cap (Cc2 in the figure) is replaced with a piece of wire. Now the plate load resistor RL1 is in parallel with the grid resistor of the following stage, Rg2, which reduces the effective value of the plate load and reduces the measured voltage gain. We generally pick Rg2 to be 2-5 times bigger than the previous stage's plate load resistor to minimize its effect. There is a limit given by manufacturers for how big a grid resistor can be before leading to problems due to grid current.
A design procedure might then be pick the biggest allowable grid resistor Rg2 for the following stage. Divide that value by 4-5 and use this value for your plate load resistor. Draw a loadline with the available supply voltage for the stage, then select a first-guess likely good idle point. Calculate the internal plate resistance at this operating point, then check against the value of selected plate load resistor. Ensure the plate load is several times bigger than internal plate resistance, then use the formula to predict the gain of the stage. If everything checks out, use the chosen bias point's grid voltage and plate current to calculate the needed cathode resistor. Use a bypass cap which fully bypasses the cathode resistance and parallel tube resistance at the lowest frequency of interest to ensure you get the full gain predicted by the formula.