OK, so I didn't get as much valuable info. for you guys as I would have wanted, but I did get the solution to my problem....
After changing out some component values pre and post tank,,,I wound up removing the cathode caps on the driver and recovery tubes (per PRR) and it had a HUGE effect on the amount of reverb in the signal...and I lost a little too much depth
I had also tried "packing in" the springs (with foam and/or cotton ball), but couldn't find a happy medium where I didn't kill it completely.....it got rid of the clanginess, but also got rid of too much dwell
SO, I went back and tried it with one or the other bypassed,,and I found a perfect solution by only removing the cap from the driver tube
For me, it got rid of a lot of the "excess artifacts" in the background of the reverb, and gave me a nice, clean, controllable dwell, that has way less spring ring/clang in it,,,,and confirms my idea that I was looking for a little less push into the tank
I returned all other changes to stock values and I was very happy with the end result.....this tweak, combined with a small reduction in preamp gain, has brought me to a point where I can move forward with this amp.
Thanks again for all of your suggestions!