... most builders of Fender type amps choose to go with only one input jack on each channel , I always see 33K instead of 68k. So , if there is no difference , why not stay with the 68k ?
Many amp builders copy whatever came before without really understanding what is going on.
Others have read what's going on and found out that when plugging into the "High" jack, the 68kΩ resistors are in parallel. So they use 33kΩ, because 34kΩ is not a standard value. In their own way, they are also just copying what came before.
The value is not critical. Use 10K to 100K.
So.. you seem to be saying , the value is not critical. Use 10K to 100K.

No, that's exactly what he said.
If you only have 1 of these resistors per channel, then the only function of the resistor is to stop V1 from becoming an a.m. radio. The
grid stopper does that by cutting high frequency response so that the radio issue never has a chance to happen. You can use the smallest value needed to accomplish that goal (maybe 10kΩ, like Sluckey suggested).
Or the resistor can be as large as you want, as long as it doesn't roll off highs you wanted from your guitar (the 100kΩ upper limit Sluckey suggested).
Your guitar cable may also be rolling off highs (due to cable capacitance), which could magnify how much impact the grid stopper seems to have. On the other hand, most guitar speakers are rolling off by 4-6kHz, and are well down by 10kHz. Add it all up, there's a lot of leeway in an acceptable value, which will likely be determined by your guitar cable and ears.