What I do is place one mic about 3ft in front of the cabinet and another about 8ft directly behind the first one. I mix them both even in mono. I think that is the most faithful reproduction with the mics I have in the room I have
Couldn't agree more.
You listen to these things while in a room of some size. Close miking with a cardioid mic isolates the sound pickup from anything else in the room, but an isolated sound is not necessarily natural.
And I think you need to work on getting sounds by listening to the playback until you get a playback which matches the sound in the room (if neutrality is your goal). You might have to swap to different mics, you might have to swap mic technique.
If you use more than one mic, you
will have to adjust mic positioning to avoid phase cancellation. You do this by summing them to mono, listening to one mic with the phase flipped, and adjusting position
for maximum bass cancellation. Then when you set the phase switch back so that both are same-phase again, you will have minimum-/no-cancellation.
Know how your mics deviate from reality. Use that deviation to counter the deviation from reality of a given mic technique to get back closer to reality.
Experimenting with bi-polar and omni mics for your room sound is a good idea. Look at the Jeff Lynne video below. Granted it's a video and not a documentary of him tracking the song, but he did record this specific song at his house, where the video is shot. Notice the drums have close mics, but also an overhead pair, and there is a room mic in the foreground when you see the whole "band". When there is a tight shot of his lead vocal, you'll see a 2nd room mic behind him. This stuff captures the way an instrument actually sounds in the room, and adds (back) body.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wb8MvqLUy_0You should also be aware of how your position in a room alters your sound. See the video below. The Earthworks mics used are about as neutral as they come. But the player has positioned himself in a hallway, probably to add a slight amount of room ambiance. But he's also in a corner of sorts; playing with a corner behind you will boost the apparent bass. But he also opened the glass door, so that it's behind him in that corner. I bet that added treble slightly, if only to brighten the room reverb.
Now he's playing with a thumbpick and metal fingerpicks, and those fingerpicks will add some treble bite. In all, I'd bet the recording sounds very much like the guitar did in the room, given the mics are elevated and in front of him, and are omni mics. The guitar might sound different if he weren't sitting near that corner, but I've heard that bass boost myself when playing a small-body acoustic near a corner, so I'm confident there's no EQ added.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PsvbLjExspk... playback I simply just use standard computer speakers or earbuds since this is how most of the people asking for clips listen to them.
Earbuds might be okay. I might lack experience, but I've never heard any computer speaker that didn't sound like garbage.
My opinion is if you're tracking, you should use the best monitoring you can to know what sound you're really getting. Otherwise, you might be compensating for the shortcomings of your monitors. For mixing, there might be something to be said for having "poor monitors" (like the old Yamaha NS-10's). You want to have a listen to your mix on something like what your music will be played through, just to know if something will jump out or disappear. I was in a studio once where one of the monitors was a 3-4" speaker which was fed a mono mix, so the engineer knew how their mix would have sounded when the music video was played on the average TV set at the time.
How you crack that nut is up to you.