I did reduce those from 68K to 43K thinking that it would be better with a 10K in series. I have read that going lower on grid stoppers is better for lower noise ...
Yeah, I think the logic goes something like "resistors contribute noise, and very high resistances contribute more noise, so reduce resistance to reduce noise." The problem is you're trying to use a grid stopper to reduce high-frequency response as the way of killing RF noise, and the value of resistance determines how that approach works. Reducing the total resistance from 68kΩ to 53kΩ (43kΩ + 10kΩ) actually reduced your high frequency attenuation.
The formula for capacitive reactance is:

"C" will wind up being the Miller Capacitance of the 1st tube stage; we could calculate that, but let's assume it will be ~120pF, or 0.00000000012F
Let's use 20,000 Hz for "f" which is the upper limit of human hearing.
If you calculate "Xc" using those numbers, you get ~66kΩ. An RC circuit's response will be down 3dB when circuit-R equals Xc. If you swap the positions of "f" and "Xc" in the formula, you can take your known-R and find the -3dB frequency. For 53kΩ and 120pF, the circuit is -3dB at ~25kHz, so a little less high frequency attenuation.
... I have read that going lower on grid stoppers is better for lower noise ...
Since the circuit's effectiveness is dependent on the resistance value, a better option for reducing noise is to use a lower-noise type of resistor. Like metal film instead of carbon comp. But this will just cut hiss, if hiss is even an issue due to the grid stopper.
How did you determine it was RF noise, and related to the input jacks?
It's radio station signals that are being picked up, but I don't know for sure if it is due to the jacks. I recently re-did my ground scheme in that amp to get other noises minimized, but the radio stations are still picked up. I don't get those stations picked up on my other amps using the same guitars, cables, location, etc. so it is specific to this amp.
What's the amp? Do you have any pictures of it?
You have a 3-wire power cord, with the ground wire bolted to the chassis? Do you have any kind of ground-lift scheme? Did you do anything to try to isolate any circuit elements (jacks, pots, etc) from the chassis? (I'm
not recommending that as a fix, just trying to find out what you have now)
What is your present ground scheme? How are filters caps, and the rest of the circuit in general, grounded? What did you change when you re-did the grounding?
Broadly speaking, to make an A.M receiver you need a diode detector and some amplification. An over-driven tube grid can act as the diode. But so can non-obvious wiring errors. If you have a 220kΩ or higher resistor handy, try swapping that in as a temporary grid stopper and see if you can kill the radio stations. If not, you probably have some other error or cause of the noise.