After doing some value checks on resistors (carbon comp) ... on the old amps I have, some have drifted over the marked 10%. ... 100k are measuring up to 110k and some are even higher. ...
Not really a big deal.
If the amps are truly old and the 100kΩ resistors have a silver band, they probably never measured closer than 106kΩ (or above) or 94kΩ (or below). Composition resistors are made by mixing up the "composition," attaching leads and measuring the resulting resistors. The body gets painted with the color bands of the resistance it lands on. The resistors closest to the center value get the gold 5% band, and then 10% & 20% (no band) resistors get marked according to where the measured value lands.
Every good old amp I ever owned had resistors that drifted off spec. The few times I swapped with "right value" parts, the sound didn't improve.
... new caps have a -10 +30% tolerance ...
That's fabulously tight tolerance for an e-lytic cap. Some filter caps in your fave old amps were +100% -50%. The "good stuff" was +50% -30%.
... but when a tube rectifier states that the reservoir cap is to be no greater than say 50uf this could then mean the cap value could rise to 65uf.
Find a data sheet from the 60's or earlier that actually says that (I know I saw a JJ sheet that had a "max" value and 1 Philips sheet from the old days). Most don't really specify a maximum
capacitance; they have a maximum current the cathode can pass steady-state and during brief sharp pulses. The impedance of the power transformer matters when figuring this stuff, as does any series resistance added. When you adjust for these, the capacitor size can go up because the series resistance limits the peak current possible.
When you hear "maximum capacitance of ____ rectifier", it's just people quoting someone else who mis-quoted a part of a data sheet they didn't understand. Oddly, none of the same folks seem to notice the handy tables showing the maximum permissible direct current draw, or the graphs with a.c. input volts with different types of power supplies (these already take into account the size of the input resistor or choke, as well as PT impedance).
Of course, the data sheet graphs tend to have limited utility these days, because there's generally 1 value of input-cap or input-choke, and PT impedance. RDH4 has a whole section on how to really calculate all this stuff if you want to mess with it (it's downloadable in the Library of Information).