so let me get terminology 1st, split load PI is essentially single triode, inv sig from plate, non-inv from cathode?
Yes, but they're almost always used with another triode in front, as the inverter itself has no gain due to the large cathode load. Any negative feedback is generally returned to the cathode of that gain stage ahead of the split-load inverter, which I tend to call a "pre-gain stage."
Look at a Fender Princeton Reverb for an example of a split-load inverter with a pre-gain stage with output stage negative feedback injected at the cathode.
The B+ is 290ish at the 1st tap, bias will be cathode. The quad SE I did liked around -5.5v so i'll probably use that as a start, but was gonna run it hot, maybe 95% max plate then dial down is needed.
Are you certain of those numbers?
Mullard's EL84 data sheet shows a push-pull output stage with 300v plate and screen, 40mA of total cathode current and a 270Ω cathode resistor per tube (top of page 2). That gives 0.04A * 270Ω = 10.8v of bias, and Mullard shows total output stage drive (grid-to-grid) of 20v peak-to-peak.
There's some implied statements in Mullard's data, that you have 300v from plate & screen to cathode
after the drop across the bias resistor, so your bias will be a little lower if you start with a 290v B+ and reduce the amount of plate & screen voltage by the amount dropped across your bias resistor. That will reduce the bias voltage a little, but not a whole lot. The 250v push-pull condition shows a bias of ~9.3v, once you do the same math to figure it.
Anyway, you have to have the B+, a few stages of power supply filtering, and the output stage design known before you will know the requirements for phase inverter design. Which is why I'm asking about output stage particulars when you asked about a phase inverter.