For low microphonics, gain & long life reliability
what are the best choices in the following list I'm offered:
Your choice depends on your wallet and subjective preference.
Which is best for "low microphonics & gain" is a trick question. They're all 12AX7's, so all have the same nominal gain; variation above & below the nominal gain is normal and can't be determined except by testing the individual tubes offered in-circuit. So gain is sample-dependent.
"Low microphonics" is similar. Tubes with the shortest plates and heaviest support structure have the lowest risk for microphonics. But that doesn't mean longplate tubes will have microphonics; it's sample- and
application-dependent. Not every tube will be microphonic, and even a tube that's microphonic in one amp may not be in a different amp with a lower gain structure or better isolation from speaker vibration, or even in a different socket in the first amp with less amplification afterwards.
As for "long life reliability" ... I've had a bunch of old-production 12AX7's over the years, some as long as 20 years. I've never had a preamp tube fail outright. Most of the 20 year old tubes can be popped into an amp and perform as well as any other tube. Some might exhibit a hair less gain from the long wear, but you won't notice it without plugging a tube in with higher gain.
The truth is, most tubes will last an inordinately long time unless they're on 24/7, or unless you play in a band with multiple gigs per week, every week. The 24/7 tubes may eventually have cathodes that fail to deliver enough emission to perform to the fullest, while the gigging band may have tube failures mainly from being bounced around hard & frequently.
Maybe the seller has a tube tester and will give you measurements. The secret is, almost all tube testers are difficult or impossible to accurately calibrate, and the tester's results may be difficult or impossible to translate into a statement of the tube's performance. Testers of the same brand and model will almost always give different results even when testing the same tube. You don't have to believe me, read Alan Douglas' posts on the Antique Radio Forum; he quite literally wrote the book on tube testers (as an internet search will show).
At best, tube testers give an
indication of a tube's condition, while the tube's performance must be assessed in the circuit in which it will perform. Even Hickok's manuals tell the user to test tubes in-circuit before deciding one is weak or should be thrown away.