You sure I can't use one side of the Primary of a PP OT for a single tube...?
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... when I looked at the PP OT someone had wired the "two plate primary's and left the CT hanging"...? It worked this way too. ...
You can drive a car with 4 flat tires too, but it's not a good idea.

Vibrolax has been telling you right.
Could you use a push-pull OT in a single-ended circuit and get sound through it? Yes.
Will you get all the power output from your new SE circuit? Maybe not. You might if you use something like a 30-50w OT in a 5w SE circuit.
The idle current in a SE output stage flows through the OT in one direction only, partially magnetizing it. This doesn't contribute to output power but does eat up a significant portion of the OT's "magnetic capacity."
* The a.c. signal also creates a changing magnetic field at the core, and the core's ability to support that field with its "magnetic capacity" is what assists transferring power from the primary to the secondary. For a given power through-put, a SE OT is big, and of course adds that air-gap which helps offset the effect of the standing direct current and prevent early core saturation (a point where you simply can't get more transfer of power from the primary to the secondary).
Push-pull OT's have an arrangement of winding and physical connections such that the d.c. of each half of the output stage flows in opposite directions through the primary winding, while the desired a.c. signal currents flow in the same direction. So the end result is the impact of the d.c. on core magnetization is cancelled out as long as the two halves of the output stage are reasonably balanced at idle, but the desired audio output of the two halves add. Because the idle direct current is effectively cancelled as far as core magnetization is concerned, the core doesn't have to support that anymore and can be sized only for the desired audio output. As a result, push-pull OT's have smaller cores than SE OT's of the same power rating, and of course don't need air gaps.
Taken all together, this means that while you might get away with using a push-pull OT in a SE circuit (assuming you even get close to the correct primary impedance to allow the output tube to make maximum power), you won't be able to push as much audio power from primary to secondary as you would had you used the same transformer in its intended push-pull configuration.
... he had someone else hook up the 4 ohm tap. But the guy used a shorting jack, when he played one tap ... the tip was shorted to ground.
... the ... OT was sounding weak, and breaking up right away, actually no clean. ...
Yeah, people make that mistake all the time, not knowing the speaker jacks aren't exactly the same as the input jacks. Or they get an old Fender combo, plug the internal speaker into the external speaker jack instead of the correct one; now the original internal speaker jack is shorting the signal, and very weak distorted output is the result. Good catch on your part, as that's simply an issue of the jacks rather than the performance of the OT.
* "Magnetic Capacity" is not the correct technical term, but I'm using it to help you visualize what's happening.