Well don't feel sorry for me
I have a lovely amps, Excellent high efficiency speakers, Beautiful regularly maintained guitars (great acoustic tone, well set up etc etc), good quality normal length patch chords, change strings regularly, play lovely clean crisp sounds
Do not play too loud (jazz rockabilly, latin, etc etc) etc etc So NO NO NO NO NO NO to all those assumptions.
Strangers are always telling me how lovely setup sounds ( I play live a lot)
And with respect
I don't compare electrical components to organic foods , aged whiskies or fine wines .
Tubes are manufactured objects mass produced in factories developed over a matter of a few decades, not the result of thousands of years of tradition, experimentation, family recipes, complex organic processes etc.
Couldn't even begin to imagine them in the same league myself . I could compare music to those things though.
But I will NEVER begrudge you your enjoyment of them or suggest that anything you are doing, using, etc is deficient,and I certainly wouldn't pity you for enjoying them or spending extra money on them.
Please enjoy them and the differences you hear! (I say this seriously)
To me the magic is in the music, the playing of it,and to a slightly lesser degree, the instruments. Gear is tonnes of fun, but to me, ultimately an ends to a means, and a pleasurable pastime.
Best regards