"So if we move the resistor to before the diode,then we have the cap connected with 0 R and the delay goes away, right?"
Not really, the diode does not much affect the RC time constant. It is the SIZE (value) of the resistor that the cap charging current has to flow through. Whether before or after the diode, every charging electron has to flow through that 220K (in this case) current-limiting, charge-limiting resistor. The delay would "go away" if we eliminated the R completely. Not completely, of course, caps require some time to charge, but for all real world purposes, losing the Resistor would take the delay down to well under a second.
Since the ultimate aim of the bias rectifier is to produce "in the neighborhood" of 50 volts (forget the polarity) and a half wave rectifier off half a 300 volt winding should produce .7 * 300 = 210 volts which we then have to whack down to 50, we would like to be able to use 100 volt caps instead of 250 or 300 volt filter caps. So, by inserting the resistor either in front of the diode OR immediately after the diode, hardly matters, we can chop the voltage that ends up on the caps AND perform a bit of current limiting just to be nice to our parts. So somewhere between "zero delay" and "too much delay" is a 1-2-3 second time constant. I tend to use about 15K in that spot, but I *also* like to be able to develop enough (negative) bias volts so that I can completely or almost completely shut off the output. IMO it's handy for troubleshooting the preamp section if you have a hum problem which can be time consuming, you don't have to cook your output tubes while you chase it down. I like to be able to get as much as (negative) 65-75 volts on the grids and it also allows for component drift. The first time one applies power to a new build is what/when? Test the heaters, see if they light up? Check unloaded B+ or, better, throw a resistor calculated to pull say 40-50 mils across the main power supply just to be sure it's working and so you don't blow the main filter caps with too-high volts? Check bias? You bet. I like the idea of knowing that I have way too high negative volts (yes, sounds odd) to shut the output section hard off, just in case something fails 20 seconds after I turn it all on for the first time. The 22K I suggested would yield .4 seconds * 4 or 5 which is 2-3 seconds which should be fine.
Now we get to the voltage divider network, everything after the last cap in the chain. All you want to do here is to 1: provide enough adjustment range and 2: make it so that you CAN'T dial the bias so low that you redplate the output tubes. I don't know the proper bias volts for the given tubes, but for 6L6 where we want about 45-52 volts, I like to be prevented from going under say 30-35 volts. That's governed by the R UNDER the adjust pot.