> "Inside the tube there is naturally occurring degenerative feedback" was an odd way of looking at it.
That's intrinsic to Triode operation. Plate voltage influences effective internal grid field, and (for most audio circuits) the effect is negative feedback.
I do object to simply equating this with Mu. It is more obvious to look at Gm, which is like cathode internal resistance. If you add an external resistance, gain drops. Because rk is often similar to RK, it drops to about half.
A drop-shelf at half level is NOT a strong EQ. Bass below the S-bend is reduced but fully audible. In contrast coupling cap which just falls and falls.
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> anybody actually observed a 6db/octave slope in the wild?
Yes.
Any deviation, without another element (such as tube internal cathode resistance), would mean it aint working like its supposed to.
The cathode cap begins to cut bass, tending to 6dB/oct, BUT even when the cap is removed the gain only changes 5dB-10dB. So it is two flat gain sections with an S-bend between. The change is not big enough to develop the ultimate 6dB/oct slope. For a typical tube bypass, if you get right in the mid-zone and measure very close, you may find 3dB/oct. In fact this how 3dB/oct (pink) filters are made: a series of 6dB steps spaced correctly.
> I'm not seeing 6db/octave (leastways down to -12db).
Yeah, yeah, 6dB/oct is the limit that it never reaches. It's -3dB at the corner. Plot that point and 6dB/oct beyond. At the next octave the response falls about 1dB shy, or -7dB. Where you figure -12dB would be, it is really -12.5dB. As the corner is really -3dB, you drop 9.5dB in two octaves, and observe 4dB-5dB/oct. Keep going beyond 20dB or 40dB, the shortfall is too small to be sure of without careful calibration
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> if ...the cathode bypass cap boosts lows at 6dB per octave
Huhh? You got turned around. It doesn't "boost lows".