... I'm trying to correlate all of these analogies ...
I got lost. Ohm's Law and the Equation for Power seem much easier to work with.
And tubes don't blow up when they're "overloaded" (which wasn't really defined). The
Unified Theory of Analogies starts to break down (for my brain anyway...).
If the tube sees an infinite load impedance, current swing is zero, so Power = Any Volts * Zero Current = Zero Power.
If the tube sees zero load impedance, voltage swing is zero, so Power = Zero Volts * Any Current = Zero Power.
You might say the zero-load case is equal to a short-circuit, but the tube is unharmed while the power supply blows a fuse. The infinite-load case could create voltage spikes which will kill transformer inter-winding insulation, but again the tube is unharmed.
Between those cases, tube-unique behaviors happen.
Plate voltage swing in the negative direction (towards 0v on the plate) can't go less-than-0 because a tube can't conduct in that direction. And before the plate gets to 0vdc, either plate current will collapse (plate not positive-enough to support plate current), or will be limited by grid-conduction as G1 (control grid) is driven positive and attempts to draw current from the previous stage which then causes that previous stage's output voltage to collapse.
At some low plate voltage, all grid curves converge into roughly a single curve below the knee... This represents severe distortion on this half of the signal swing, and can be seen as a related impact along with reduced power output.
The above effects tend to limit viable options when you raise the output tubes' plate load impedance. Whether or not they are a problem might depend on how much output power you're seeking.
On the other side of things, there are some limits when you run an ever-lower plate load. When plate current falls from idle and the plate voltage is swinging above the idle value, the grid curves crowd together at low plate currents. This is a source of distortion especially for single-ended amps (because there's not an opposing tube to conduct more and offset the first tube's falling conduction).
But you might imagine a tube with a much-lower-than-optimum plate load might be able to conduct way-too-much plate current. However, the 0v grid curve imposes an upper limit of plate current. So unless the amp was specially-constructed to be able to drive the grid positive, the tube reaches its upper limit, the driving grid voltage collapses due to grid current conduction, and the tube isn't damaged.
An exception to the above is a way-too-low load
combined with too hot an idle bias, and the tube overheats due to too much average power input. But really this is a fault of the idle bias rather than the loading: the transformer primary is just a coil of wire and its resistance to direct current is very much less than its impedance to alternating current (for a useful transformer design).
The above cases also help explain why "mismatching" a load tends to reduce output power and/or increase distortion.
There is always some optimum loading, bias, etc for a given set of tubes running at a given supply voltage which will deliver maximum clean power output. But the more I look around, the more I see hobbyist guitar players for whom 30-50w is too much to be useful (sometimes even 4w is too much), and "non-optimum design" which doesn't yield all the possible clean power output may in fact be an ideal design for these players.
It seems like a good idea to highlight designing towards a power target, especially if these are the kinds of amps more folks will start building for their use at home.