I can't wait til someone asks about a 5mA difference and I can reference this post.
Gerard Weber's book say matched between 6 to 10 ma is ok . Amp sound is less sterile than if "perfectly" matched.
I do have a 1962 Deluxe with a pair of 6V6s matched to 0.1mA. But that's more because I have a bunch of American 6V6s to choose from. I
think the first couple American Tung Sols I put in the amp just happened to land that close.
I had previously demonstrated in a thread over there that you could pull a tube from the socket and run only one side of the push-pull stage and still sound subjectively "okay." This is with that same '62 Deluxe:
https://soundcloud.com/hotblueplates/2-tubes-vs-1-tubeAllegedly this wasn't a problem in the 50's and 60's due to tighter tolerances on tube manufacture? Then became a problem when mil-spec was abandoned? Im a little too young to have first hand knowledge of that era.
Did ya follow the link to my post?
The point was using one tube I knew was roughly-dead (it measures about half the idle current & 2/3 the transconductance that it should when put on my tester) and another tube I know to be defective (it idles near 2x the current it should have when fed a given bias). I knew these tubes would be about as mismatched as you can get, and both are old American-made tubes.

Note that I'm not advocating anyone use a pair that's mismatched by 61mA, or one tube running 1000% of the plate current of the other tube. I just hate to see people waste money needlessly because they think they're adhering to some best practice (but they've got it set in their mind as a Law rather than a Best Practice).
I've got 40 or so American-made 6L6 (type) tubes, and maybe 100 American made 6V6s. In my measurements I've seen +/-20% variance around the "book value" for any given tube. I don't think the tubes were necessarily tighter-tolerance back in the day, though the gross defects were likely screened out better. And I think cathode chemistry was likely better, enabling longer useable life. Beyond that, if you dig into them long enough you'll find the bad apples.
How would running the mismatched tubes over an extended period affect the reliability of the output transformer? How long would a mismatched pair of modern tubes last in any given amp? ...
No idea. I doubt my interest would remain long enough for me to do some kind of life test.
I do think you're right to give your customers matched tubes, because their amp will certainly perform
better especially if they need maximum output power for stage performance. I didn't get to crank my Super Reverb high enough, but I'm sure it would have distorted earlier with the mismatched set.
But the audience over at that other forum are mostly guys playing at home, buying too much amp, and then buying a Fryette Power Station or UA Ox to knock the sound level back down. They don't
need maximum output power, and instead thinking they're missing out on
TONE! if they don't spend more money replacing serviceable tubes with a precisely-matched set.
The goal of the thread was to impart perspective.