I tried measuring the tubes. Here's my methodology and results, would be happy to get some feedback.
With no tubes in the amp, I powered up the amp and set the balance control to get lowest possible voltage difference between the two control grids (managed to get down to a few millivolts). I checked the bias on each socket to make sure it was the same, and it was (-19V, 1V more bias than on the schematic).
I measured the tubes as they were paired in the amps they came from. After a short warmup, I measured voltage drop from OT center tap to plate of each tube. After the first measurement, I flipped the tubes from one socket to the other and measured again, then averaged the two measurements (to account for asymmetric OT resistance).
Here are my results:
Tube 1 -4.7V
Tube 2 -2.6V
Tube 3 -2.3V
Tube 4 -2.0V
Tube 5 -3.1V
Tube 6 -3.3V
Of the three amps I have, one will be daily driver for a touring musician. That one needs to be as reliable and long-lasting as possible. Another will be used for my home Fender Rhodes, which sees only occasional use (I mostly play saxophone, this one probably only sees ~100 hours of use per year). The third will be a backup, hopefully I'll never need it, except to cannibalize a tube at some point which I hope never arrives.
I'm undecided as to which tubes to put in each amp. The way I see it, I have two options. I can either put tube 1 and 4 in the backup amp, that will leave me with two pretty solidly matched pairs in the working amps (I would use the strongest ones for the touring amp). Otherwise, I can simply put them in order from strongest to weakest and leave the weakest ones in my backup amp. Thoughts? What about my methodology, did I miss something important?
Bonus question: The grid balance pot is 1k, but the grid leaks it connects to are 220k low-precision. So no movement of the balance pot can compensate for the low precision of the grid leaks. Should I replace the grid leaks with high-precision resistors, or consider using a bigger balance pot? Or just live with the imbalance (and maybe put the weaker tube on the side with lower bias voltage)?