This 220K is a dedicated grid leak for the recovery triode. If you unplug the return cable from your tank, your recovery triode no longer has a grid leak to ground and your unit will probably hum or make other undesired noises. The resistor is a good thing. I have one on my unit.
... as you have seen, the resistor is unneeded as long as the reverb return cable is securely attached to the tank and the unit.
So what’s this stuff about making the reverb sound sweeter ?
Also the TAD kit has it wired across the reverb return hot and ground
The Reverb Tank's Output runs to the jack TAD calls "Reverb Output" which runs to V1A Pin 2.
It's electrically the same if your 220kΩ resistor runs from Pin 2 directly to Ground, or if it is from the jack's Hot to Ground.
As for "sounding sweeter" folks probably imagine the resistor will interact with cable capacitance to roll off some treble, because "220kΩ" < "∞Ω". I'm skeptical, as the cable isn't that long from tank to chassis. And the output transducer of the reverb tank is an impedance-to-ground that is very much smaller than 220kΩ.
I might add this resistor to my 1965 6G15 Reverb (just because). However, I also don't plan on using my 6G15 Reverb without the tank plugged in...