... Im posting to get a feel for what I should or should not do. I reaaaallllyy want to keep it the museum piece that it is. But I also believe these things should be played. ...
I agree with SEL49: I would leave all caps exactly as they are, and play the amp.
- I didn't hear hum in your clips, telling me the filter caps are good enough.
- The amp sounds good, so the preamp electrolytic caps are doing well enough.
- In Fender amps, I usually prefer the sound of 1-2µF cathode bypass caps over the stock 25µF (that can be boomy/muddy), and this is where they tend to go when the cathode bypass caps age/change-value.
I have experienced removing electrolytic caps from 1960s amps, only to find they test as-good or better than modern replacement filter caps. While the knee-jerk "replace them all" advice comes from a well-meaning place, I don't think it's as absolute as often presented.
... Im going to order an ESR meter but id have to assume the board electrolytics are done for after 60 years. ...
ESR meters are "meh" to me.
I much prefer the Sencore LC75 I got a few years ago. It places as much as 600vdc across the cap, then measures leakage current in µAs. That tends to correlate well to performance of filter caps, etc.