If the yellow/blue is a center tap on my PT---how would I determine if it is???? Should have "0" voltage when PT is live right??
Without applying power, why not do a continuity/ohms check to see which wires are on the same winding? Some lowish resistance will indicate that a group of wires are on the same winding. If you guess right about a wire being a center-tap, you should see similar resistance to each of the ends of that winding; if you guess wrong about your reference wire and it is an end instead of center, you should see a resistance to one other wire and double/half the resistance to the other wire.
The resistance check should be your first plan of attack, to see what is connected to what.
If/when you apply power, you will not see "0 volts" on anything necessarily. A center-tap is only at 0v because we attach it to our reference voltage. In other words, but both the red and black lead on the same wire (any wire) and you'll see 0v between the meter leads.
For a 6.3vac winding with center-tap, if you hook your black lead to the actual center-tap and measure to the other 2 wires, you will get 3.15vac at each of those wires (higher obviously due to no load). If you guess wrong about the center, you'll measure 3.15vac at one wire and 6.3vac at the other; that will tell you that you were actually using an end of the winding as your reference.
Will it work OK if I just put the 100 Ohm to ground on the two heater wires if I can't determine if yellow/blue is a center tap?
Sure it will. But I'm confident that if there is a center-tap that you'll be able to locate it.
Instead of just sticking a 470 Ohm cathode resistor in like is used on a 6V6/AA764, I'm thinking I should probably see what the final plate voltage is loaded and do a current calc and adjust the cathod resistor based on the finding up or down.
Sounds reasonable to me.
I think you subtract cathode voltage from the plate voltage to do calc.
Very true. The important thing is plate to cathode voltage, as that is what the tube feels.
About what mA should Idle be?
No clue without knowing the supply voltage. From there, you'd decide on an idle dissipation and estimate a bias voltage. Then you could figure the bias resistor using ohms law by knowing bias voltage wanted and idle current. You could refine your guess with idle screen current, etc, but you'll probably have to round the calculated bias resistor anyway to be an actual standard value.