Couldn't I just use a cap in parallel with a resistor to make a high/low pass?
for hi-pass 'yes', for low-pass, no. for low-pass, you can use a cap, or a set of parallel caps and resistors to ground.
BIRT has a good suggestion about the XLR balanced output.
I've built a few tube pre-amps, here are some thoughts:
1.) have a ground lift switch, if you plug this into an amp with unbalanced signal (1/4 inst. cable) and both the preamp and the amp have 3 prong plugs, you can get ground loop noise. the shield on the inst. cable will provide path to ground from with the chassis. This is different than a ground lift switch on a XLR/balanced output box, but you can have a ground lift there as well (for pin 1).
2.) re-evaluate the tube rectifier. pre-amp tubes won't draw enough current to ever get a tube rectifier to cause sag, and I'm not sure there is any reason beyond that to use them. If you are modeling your engineering of Ampeg, they switched to SS as soon as they could.
3.) Triode transformers makes a nice Dynaco pre-amp PA211/PA522 that is a 330-0-330 and 12.6v/900ma filament transformer that works well for this application, tho its 12.6v, not 6.3v and I see you'd like to use 6SL7s. If you reconsider and decide (1) use 12SL7s or (2) decide to use 9A based tubes (12ax7/12au7 etc), this is a perfect tranny. I've used the International version PA522 (which has 120v and 240v windings) by using the 240v windings with 120v USA wall power to produce 165-0-165 and 6.3v secondaries.
4.) you've got stereo inputs, you could add extra switched output jacks to have optional stereo outs, pre-mixing resistors...
5.) you've got a 12au7 enlisted for the CF, you've got another section there for another CF out (maybe for the other channel, or to drive a transformer XLR/balanced out.
6.) that preamp has enough gain to hit a power-amp section, you might want to tame it down with lower Mu-triodes (6SN7s, or 6072As, 6211s, 12AU7s). If you go with 6SL7s (or 12ax7s), your usable gain will be between 0 and 3 on your volume knobs, I suspect).
7.) 9A based tubes will give you a lot tuning of the overall gain, with an 8BD pinout, you are limited to 6SL7s and 6SN7s, with 9A's, you can you use 12au7s and 12BH7As all the way up to 12AX7s (there are about 10 different Mu tubes in between).
Piezoelectric pickups in acoustics produce sound a lot different than magnetic pickups. Besides the much much high output impedance (which you might have to phtuz with on your 1st stage to match), you might find that the tone stack in a traditional amp (like the one you are looking at) change the sound of your Piezos differently than magnetic pickup guitars/basses. Be prepared to have to change the tonestack a bit. also look at the bass tone stack on an SVT.